For some men, dating women can be a difficult and uncomfortable experience, in fact, many would rather not talk to women they find attractive. No matter how modern and independent women have become, there are things that men can still do to make themselves more attractive to them.

Here are 5 simple tips on how to flirt with women.

1. Confidence.

   There is just something about confidence that exudes its attraction to the opposite sex, when men are sure of themselves, they make women feel that they are important, and that’s where women actually want to be. Confident men are not afraid to be themselves as the real them, and women can feel that they are truly important. Confidence is one of the qualities women are looking for in a serious relationship, and one of the ways that men flirt with women is by pretending to be confident. Nothing is more attractive to women than confidence.

2. Eye contact.

   This is the most common and effective way to flirt with women. It is also the most powerful. Stare into her eyes, and let her know you are interested in whatever she has to say. Stop staring at her lips!! A woman’s eyes are a window to her soul, and thus a powerful way to show your confidence. However, you must not smother her with your gaze. Make eye contact, then slowly lowering your gaze, is a powerful indication of interest. Again, you can combine this powerful look with a smile, and you will intimidate her!

3. Time together.

   This is must time for a couple, but what if you are not sure what your partner is into, or she is not open to you discussing topics of conversation, because she does not have the time, or doesn’t have the interest. There are two answers to this. First answer is the classic one, which is just to meet somewhere. When I met my girlfriend I took her to a wonderful pasta place. We sat in the corner in a quiet corner, where we could speak maximum. There was no need to talk because it was quiet and we could speak maximum. We could have spoken about the WARRANT, the Computapoint, we had no cell phones, and finally I paid for the goddamn meal. She started talking about some suspect she was, but I was a good listener, and I could sense she was open to me talking about yourself. What an amazing combination! So, if your time is limited by work, find something else to do with your precious time.

   On the other hand, most people would meet at a place of work. I met my girlfriend at the laundry mat brush. We could stay there all night and talk. If there was no laundryman, we would sack up and go to the local convenience store, get cigarettes, and then finish the job. Then we would finish up there. Later we could leave with a pleasant stranger for a pleasant evening stroll. Be creative. Sometimes you can meet a woman, at a place of work. If you are not a “shopaholic” do not leave the supermarket with the intention of talking only to find her money has evaporated. It would be rude to her. I could tell one was a vegetarian and she could not eat anything with meat on it. There are so many recipes you can find on the Internet. Make sure you ask her to cook it. Some would not have the time, or inclination to cook. If you are fortunate enough to live near a large city, they have local farmer’s markets. Eat the fruit and vegetables. Find a way for you two to get to the farmer’s market. You can also meet at a nearby park and reconnect. Get a net and plant as many miniature roses. Ask her to pick them up. It could be a while. You could also borrow each other’s haul.

4. Compliment.

   A little compliment goes a long way. Find something you like and mention it. Stay away from body parts, Unlike human beings we do not have a good ability to detect subtle changes in the way someone looks. Find something you like, her shoes, or her hair. You want her to think about those things, but you do not want it to be obvious. Sometimes girls compliment me by saying how pretty I am. Include the things you like physically. Tell her what you like loving. This will make you seem interesting. Remember that you are trying to impress her and impress her with your intelligence. Every parent tries to teach their children the importance of hard work, perseverance, and achievement. What they tell their children about themselves is the very reason they came into the world. Do your best to find out what you are good at and be proud of it.

5. Make it a game.

   This will decrease the pressure you may feel. Complement her on something that she is good at.