The most frequent question men ask about women is how to understand them.

This article aims to deal with that question. Indeed, many men can find it trying to comprehend the nature and affairs of a woman.

But smile and enjoy as we go through some confusing tips on how to understand women.

We’ll be arguing that women aren’t all what we often see if you read through it. Some belief women to be creatures that need to be understood.

It could be considered – somewhat optimistically – that understanding woman is the imperative mission our lives depend on. Whether this is true or not, it hardly takes a study to find out how to understand women.

The mission can be completed in a single day, regardless of how demanding or seemingly arduous, the task may be.

How To Understand Women

Firstly, we have to understand where women come from. To be precise, before we turn to the more minute things we need to understand about understanding women, we first must comprehend a basic fact of human history.

That curious thing is what makes females tick. The remainder that’s not because women are naturally different; it’s just because society dictates that women should be treated differently.

Back in the day, when a woman was considered uptight and difficult to understand, a picture of a very difficult woman (a Syndrome) was played up as the most desirable female image.

The reality was that these women were often viewed with suspicion and frequently shunned.

In time, as we became a modern age, the female image was seen to have a great deal to do with how to understand women. The reality was that even before the era of the internet, the rules of dating had not changed.

Affection & Attractiveness

Hugging your significant other while standing firmly in front of the mirror is still the golden rule. Be the best ‘date’ you can be. That doesn’t mean being a movie buff and wearing contacts.

Attentiveness and interest are the second thing you’ll have to exhibit. Give your date your full attention, look at him, and smile with much gustation. Listen without levity and sustain attention without wandering. This type of behavior is very attractive to women.

When talking with a woman, she appears to be interested in what she’s saying and what she sees. Be a good listener not only to your date but to others as well. Make her feel small, as though she’s expected to be her full attention. Be genuine and authentic. That’s a key component of how to understand women.

Understanding Women is Easy

Understanding women is easy, but you’ve got to be honest and real.

And I’m far from pretending to be somebody else. Well, maybe just a little… 🙂

I’ve got a long history of embarrassing myself in attempts to please others. I’m incredibly flattered by compliments, but I don’t need this type of validation.

I’ve been in and out of relationships for years. I’ve had many different boyfriends and spent many years of my life exploring different personalities of relationships.

What I can tell you is that, yes, true love hurts. And yes, you can stumble as many times as you want, but you will find what you’re after.

I’ve been madly in love and feel things just as guys do. We’re very similar in that sense.

In addition, I’ve always believed that there is someone for everyone. And although my journey has taken me to some wonderful relationships, every one of them is a different experience.

I’m not saying this to hope that you’ll share my experiences or that you’ll agree with them because the only person that can make this article better is you.

I intend to raise awareness and show you that men and women are not that different so understanding women is as easy as understanding yourself.

Deep Questions to Ask

In order to understand women you must understand yourself.

In doing so you should ask yourself some questions…

My questions are perhaps simplest, but I hope this will resonate with you…

1) If I have been single for a while, how did I become bored and give up on romance?
2) If I’ve been single for a while, how did I allow myself to become bored and give up on romance?
3) If I’ve been single for a while, how do I evolve as a person?
4) If I’ve been single for a while, how did I pursue intimacy with the opposite sex?

Once you’ve asked yourself these questions, you can start to see these are the same questions and answers your other half is facing.

So with that hopefully you begin to see how you can understand women, just as you are beginning to understand yourself.