Obviously, the starting point of every successful relationship is a solid connection. This clearly implies that prior to your relationship and the supreme realization that you are indeed meant for each other, it’s imperative to know very clearly what is going on. This is because the moment your levels of attraction differ, the moment you feel one connection is enough to call it quits, is the very moment that you probably should just call it quits themselves.

So how do you know what your level of connection is? It’s all about analyzing timing. A lot of people will focus on other aspects of their life. The question is if she likes you, or is she just experimenting? I suggest you rule out the second option as it is very unhealthy. Our natural tendency is to emulate or consider as the ideal, the person we feel the least connection with. That’s why I always advise people almost to be a “bald man in training”, meaning you are always learning more about the person you are with. Focus on the other methods of analyzing timing which I will Overview below.

1. Focus on the physical.

   Sure, she makes at you, and likely even right emotes while she does it. But is it enough to be considered something more? Relationships begin to build, and relationships begin to deteriorate when the physical connection is lost—time to start paying for some actual opinions from the female community.

2. Can you tell any kind of story with pictures?

   Now always keep this in mind. Understand that people are first captivated by pictures – period. The picture is a powerful magnetism. I am not saying to follow this rule all the way down, but seriously. Try to put yourself into her shoes (or, more specifically, where she will see you from an average guy’s perspective) and try to picture how she might see you from that point of view. I am saying that you are going to make a connection if you can make her feel good about the stories she creates. I am also saying that you have to be entertaining. Period. If you cannot entertain her, what is the point of the whole thing?

3. Is it hard for you to make the first move?

   If the answer is nowadays, it means that the attraction between the both of you has grown cold. You cannot blame you- nobody else will. Don’t blame it on your looks, or on your money, or even on your sexual prowess. You just have to rely on your personality and what has attracted you to her at a certain point.

4. Are you too predictable?

   Keep in mind that predictability has always been the one thing that women tend to steer clear of. Just think about a boring business deal. The more boring, the more likely the partner will say “I can’t stay away from this deal. I just can’t!” Pretty predictable, right? If women have grown to be very successful nowadays, it’s not just because of their business acumen. It’s also because they can’t stay away from places that are predictable, like movie theaters and clubs. So be warned. Keep her guessing!

5. Does she ever find it weird when you go places without her?

   Women have developed odd ways of communicating with each other. You will notice that if you go everywhere except with her, she will start to feel first-dateless. I suggest you focus on her ONLY when you’re on a “conversation” with her at a place like a coffee shop or even at a restaurant. If you do that, you are on the right track. Whenever you go somewhere except with her, she might as well go somewhere else. And this is when the whole exercise of guessing about your activities becomes easier. The more unpredictable you are, the more intrigued she is bound to be.

Are you still wondering, does she really like me? You didn’t read this article, so close your wallets and empty your heads!