Let’s face it. Most of us want to be more attractive to the opposite sex. You’re hot, you’re sexy, and you’d like to keep that feminine! The first step to becoming more attractive to females is to create the attraction.

Now, on the surface, creating attraction seems like a lot of hard work. Almost any woman will tell you that she doesn’t have time for anything and anyone. Almost every woman will tell you that she wants a man who can fulfill her emotions. The hard truth of dating is that love and affection will happen when it is meant to, and when you are truly ready and open-hearted.

While that sounds pretty straightforward, it has been known that there are certain ways that you can use to bring this from your imagination into your reality. There are six ways to create attraction.

1. Body

   There are two kinds of men when it comes to creating attraction. One kind is the body type. The guy is tall and intimidating—the guy who is short and wimpy. The difference between these two is the man who has the strength of the man behind him. The kind of man who can move into any room and feel totally comfortable is the man who will turn women’s heads and feel like a really sexy guy. By DON’T make yourself a WIMP and learning to smile and be totally comfortable in your own skin with people, you will definitely become a lot more attractive to lots of women.

2. Head

   The way a woman views a man is pretty much the same whether he’s above or below average. As long as you’re properly groomed, have a great smile, and look at ease, you’re all set to get the girls. However, in this case, a woman views a man through the eyes of the woman. When you’re around the kind of woman you want to be with, notice the way their body language is like when she looks at you. If it feels like a satisfying connection and not a leer or a “please stop using me” session, you’re doing it right.

3. Assumed Attraction

   This is a fun thing to play. All you’ve got to do is a wink at a girl like you’ve known her for a really long time, and then DON’T wink at her again for like two weeks. That way, she’ll be sure to respond to you. And in the end, she’ll be nicely receptive to what you’ll drop into her scorecard.

4. Theme parks

   You do want to have a lot of fun, and this is a great way to cut a girl sitting in half. She doesn’t want to go to a terrible amusement park where she’s passed out from fatigue. She wants to go to a place where she’s into meetings, clubs, and other activities with friends. But the great thing is that having a great escape from all the stress of living and trying to find your own way into the world is what really makes a woman a lot more appreciative of your unique brand of fun.

5. Bars

   This is usually the low-risk zone, but you can create an atmosphere of absolute intoxicating fun with little bartering skills. Take your woman out to a bar and get her leveling in the eyes on you. Give her ear to a little seductive conversation, and work the room. Maybe even give her an appetizer you can each order for her. One note here…don’t use any really cheap pickup lines. A little sensual but not seedy talk polish works wonders.

6. Sports bars 

   Combine a nice night out on the town with some late-night Japanese gig lots, and you’ve got a winning combination. If you’re an outdoorsman, combine this with your favorite sport and watch some scrub rag guts literally fly all over the place. This is also a great build for your zone life. Women sometimes really like sports Bars, even if they don’t admit it.

So there you have it, a few hints for your future date ideas. Maybe she needs a little something extra to make the date Extra Ordinary. Maybe you put her in the needed mood and wants more of your texts, phone calls, and love. Or maybe you just want to spend a little extra time with her, and the last-minute emergency is just what she needs to forget all the pressures of the usual trials of getting to know each other. The key is in knowing what these things are,and knowing how to use them.