Attracting women is more about mindset than technique. And skills like those you will learn here will give you the edge you need. Alluring women is easier than it may seem. There are a lot of tips and pieces of advice out there, but the information you will find here will give you a slight advantage.

Confidence

A great place to start is with the concept of confidence. Confidence can be a very elusive thing for a man; why?

Because may look and act confident on the surface, but deep-down, they don’t, which leads to an overall lack of confidence.

So what is confidence?

Confidence is being comfortable with the way you are. If you want to be confident around a woman, you will have to accept that your confidence is based on the responses you portray to the world in your everyday life.

What you feel affects how you act. So let’s say you lean forward when talking to someone. This is a form of expressing and showing how comfortable you are with the interaction you are having with your target. 

Moving forward is a way of expressing that you are comfortable with what is happening.

When you are talking to a woman, she should have the sense that you are having great fun talking to her. If you don’t, you have to re-calculate how confident you are because it may be one of those days when you don’t feel like a fun guy to be around. 

So when you talk to a woman, do you notice how she is acting? Does she seem out of your league?..

If not, you notice her trying to mirror you and acting confident herself. Then this could mean she realizes how secure and confident you are.

Also, notice how she is smiling and laughing. Does she look like she is having a great time with you?… Because if she isn’t, then something is wrong!

Listen

One of the best techniques for attracting women is the ability to listen. Do you know how many women will talk about random events of the day and how bad it looks when suddenly half of the guys in the room aren’t paying attention to them?

Don’t be that guy!

Yet, if you listen to them for a half minute, they will innately feel more comfortable around you, which can lead to increased attraction.

You’re lowering her guard down because you’re showing that you are listening to what she has to say.

Women like having the ability to feel that you are around them and that you care. How do you personally show that you care without saying it? 

For instance, have you ever been on a date with a woman and she is having a great time, and then you get a call from a friend of yours saying something like this “oh my god, she is such a great person, I wish I could be there to pick her up.” 

Do you think that her having a great time while you two are on a date equals a great relationship? I guarantee you it doesn’t. 

Having a great date is just the beginning…

EVERYTHING WILL MAGICALLY FALL INTO PLACE once you start having a great date.

Did you know that you could ask the woman you’re on a date with something like, “what’s something that made you enjoy this date so far?” 

This will really get her talking, and you can then sneak in your questions. At the end of the night, when she thinks, “he asked me a question, but he really listened to what I was saying”.

Eye Contact

Look women directly in the eyes when you are speaking to them; this shows you are being sincere and listening to her. You should have the confidence to look women directly in the eyes when both of you are engaged in conversation. 

Also, you should know that you should never look at other women while on a date with a woman unless she wants you to look.

Do you know that dating is the safest form of “LSD” ever? Yes! 

If you can walk into an empty restaurant and order two pizzas, you can also engage in an engaging conversation with a woman. Therefore, on your way to meet a woman, be sure to have a prearranged reservation at a restaurant, with a note on your cell phone saying that you will meet a friend 7:30 PM for tea and a movie.

 Ladies like to be made to feel as comfortable as possible. Therefore, bring drink tickets!..

Thoughtful Gifts

Most guys know flowers are a great gift when you do something wrong.

BUT… There is nothing wrong with buying flowers for her for no reason at all.

Buying flowers never fails when it’s a thoughtful, unexpected gift.

However, if you are seeing someone regularly and you often give them flowers, you may want to consider giving something different and unique, such as books, candles, etc.

Just make sure it’s something they would use and has a tough of unique thoughtfulness to it.