Are you a single guy struggling to find dates? Dating is tricky if you do not know what you are doing. These dating tips for guys are written with the intention of providing a helping hand to your dating, life whether getting back into the dating scene or you’ve been in it for a while.

How to approach Women:

First, if you are struggling to find dates and meet women, you must know how to properly approach women. The first step when dating is to develop the confidence to walk up to women and break the ice. Many guys do not feel comfortable in approaching a woman. Let’s face it… It a lot of courage to put yourself out there and make a move! But this is where you’re failing… You’re starting off with the wrong attitude. Don’t think of it as taking a big leap of faith. Instead think of each and every opportunity as just that… A chance to fail and learn. It’s OK to take a big leap of faith, know that not all women will be open to talking. Therefore, you should not be afraid of it and try to push yourself up to meet these women. As many women who will reject you, know there are just as many out there waiting for you to say “hello” to them. So don’t hold back because of fear. Rather than focusing on the fear, you need to see the positive aspects of time training and accept it as your own personal stepping-stone.

How to strike up a good conversation with a woman you are interested in.

One of the dating tips for single men that should always be kept in mind is to smile. it does not work for everyone. But it does work most of the time. Even if you’re nervous… Smile and see where it gets you. Some women can be cautious and not smile initially, but once they get to know you they will be willing to smile and engage in a conversation.

How to successfully start a conversation with a woman.

One effective way how to start a conversation with a woman is to walk up and introduce Yourself. I know that sounds pretty obvious but being genuine and obvious is really all that it takes. Having a way to introduce yourself to a woman is pretty sure-fire way to get a conversation going. It can be awkward for some, and the conversation may even fail, but think of it as a learning experience. As well, you should know that it’s not always you… Not every women is ready to receive talking to a man. In order to avoid possible failure try starting the conversation with some positive tones.

Positive approaches including a catchy introduction, such as…

• Discussion of what’s around them
• Events coming up
• You show confidence and tell interesting stories
• Getting women to ask you questions
• Involving their friends in the conversation

Don’t try to be the topic of the conversation.

Some guys can be misconstrued in what should be the topic of conversation. Focusing on yourself when someone doesn’t know you come off as creepy. It’s also very hard for her to get engaged in the conversation… You’re not opening it up for her to add her input. Instead focus on topics and open ended questions that give her lots of opportunity to feel relaxed about saying something back. Remember she’s probably just as nervous as you are.

Don’t talk too much.

Another mistake many guys make is to keep talking or talk too much after they’ve already “sealed the deal.” Once you’ve got her phone number or set up a date, move on. The only thing you can do at this point is give her more reason why she should flake and not show up for your next date or interaction.

For example, let’s look at how this would be similar in selling a car… Imagine you’re a salesman and you’ve got the prospective car buyer ready to buy the car. They’ve told you they want to buy it and are ready to sign the paperwork… But instead of taking them inside to the office to do that, you continue talking about your favorite sports team. BUT it so happens they hate that sport team and then tell you… “You know what I think I’ll come back another day to buy the car.” You just lost the sale! Same goes for dating… Over talking can get you in to trouble and talk someone out of dating you.

The next dating tip for men is to ask for information yourself.

I recommend that right now in your quest to meet women, you all the things you love to do. Ask a question about any of the hobbies you have. For example, if you like to read and you have a hobby of reading, at a small conversation, ask her what she is into reading. Once she gets the ball rolling, inquire about the book she is currently reading. Laughter can be a great icebreaker so have some funny stories in your back pocket. By inquiring, I mean actually asking her some questions about what she is into. For example, if she is a reader like me, ask her what she has read recently.

Now the last of my dating tips for men at the conclusion of the evening is to go for the phone number.

Now, as for a guy, this is a must! Now don’t worry about being rejected. Be confident and assertive when you ask. Another approach is to give her your number. This is sort of a role reversal and can come off as even more confident to women. As it will show her interest level. If she’s into you, she’ll reach out and contact you. One the other side of the coin, if it is you reach out… If you can and she doesn’t answer leave a voice message!

Many women won’t answer their phone just to see how you sound on their voicemail before calling you back. So sound confident and assertive. Have a plan and speak to that in your message.